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		<title>Comment on Sexism in the building trades by L Rupp</title>
		<link>http://rachele.rosi-kessel.org/weblog/2006/05/17/sexism-in-the-building-trades/comment-page-1/#comment-16436</link>
		<dc:creator>L Rupp</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Jan 2011 19:03:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rachele,

I found your entry while searching for sexism in the construction industry. I&#039;ve been through three major renovations and I&#039;ve experienced a surprising amount of sexism. My husband and I don&#039;t fit into traditional roles in our work around the house. I am  the fix-it, design-it, built-it person and he&#039;s good with regular tasks. So, I&#039;ve always been the point person during renovations. I&#039;ve only managed to find ONE female contractor (painter) to work with. The rest are men. They can be quite rude, find ways to put me in my place, constantly interrupt and talk over me, and if my husband happens to be present they only talk to him. Even if I&#039;m the only one asking questions, they listen to me then turn to my husband to answer the question! When they bring in a material to get approval for, they seek out my husband for that approval, even if we make it known that I&#039;m the one handling the renovation. Fortunately not all of the guys I&#039;ve encountered are like this, but a shocking majority are. You&#039;d think that CA would be more ahead of the curve on this, but no. There are also the tangential issues, like that the construction industry, being mostly male, seem to feel rather entitled in their behaviors. This industry mostly does its work in people&#039;s living environments, in residential areas, and therefore should exhibit some sensitivity. But instead they arrive and act as if they are in their own living spaces; they seem to feel entitled to blast their music while working on-site so that the entire city block can hear it, or to break out the 6 pack on site after hours, to talk liberally on their cell phones while logging hours at the property owners expense. I for one would NEVER do these things on a job site. They also get paid extremely well, much better, in my opinion, than jobs that are predominantly held by women with a similar level of training. We should either pay them less or pay the women more.

All of this must stop. Why hasn&#039;t more changed in this area?! We must bring awareness to this issue, stand up to and require change when we meet it, and get better education on this into the construction licensing programs.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rachele,</p>
<p>I found your entry while searching for sexism in the construction industry. I&#8217;ve been through three major renovations and I&#8217;ve experienced a surprising amount of sexism. My husband and I don&#8217;t fit into traditional roles in our work around the house. I am  the fix-it, design-it, built-it person and he&#8217;s good with regular tasks. So, I&#8217;ve always been the point person during renovations. I&#8217;ve only managed to find ONE female contractor (painter) to work with. The rest are men. They can be quite rude, find ways to put me in my place, constantly interrupt and talk over me, and if my husband happens to be present they only talk to him. Even if I&#8217;m the only one asking questions, they listen to me then turn to my husband to answer the question! When they bring in a material to get approval for, they seek out my husband for that approval, even if we make it known that I&#8217;m the one handling the renovation. Fortunately not all of the guys I&#8217;ve encountered are like this, but a shocking majority are. You&#8217;d think that CA would be more ahead of the curve on this, but no. There are also the tangential issues, like that the construction industry, being mostly male, seem to feel rather entitled in their behaviors. This industry mostly does its work in people&#8217;s living environments, in residential areas, and therefore should exhibit some sensitivity. But instead they arrive and act as if they are in their own living spaces; they seem to feel entitled to blast their music while working on-site so that the entire city block can hear it, or to break out the 6 pack on site after hours, to talk liberally on their cell phones while logging hours at the property owners expense. I for one would NEVER do these things on a job site. They also get paid extremely well, much better, in my opinion, than jobs that are predominantly held by women with a similar level of training. We should either pay them less or pay the women more.</p>
<p>All of this must stop. Why hasn&#8217;t more changed in this area?! We must bring awareness to this issue, stand up to and require change when we meet it, and get better education on this into the construction licensing programs.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How Doth Thy Garden Grow&#8230; by Zachary Evans</title>
		<link>http://rachele.rosi-kessel.org/weblog/2006/09/24/how-doth-thy-garden-grow/comment-page-1/#comment-13405</link>
		<dc:creator>Zachary Evans</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jun 2010 04:43:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>my girlfriend has a grape fruit plantation in their backyard and we always taste some of the harvest.-:-</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>my girlfriend has a grape fruit plantation in their backyard and we always taste some of the harvest.-:-</p>
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		<title>Comment on Forced Procreation by Buena Dejardin</title>
		<link>http://rachele.rosi-kessel.org/weblog/2006/03/28/forced-procreation/comment-page-1/#comment-13375</link>
		<dc:creator>Buena Dejardin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jun 2010 13:32:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Whether it&#039;s political or religious views, race, size, or orientation- Doesn&#039;t everybody deserve the chance to be who they are? Let&#039;s not make anyone feel bad they&#039;re something else.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whether it&#8217;s political or religious views, race, size, or orientation- Doesn&#8217;t everybody deserve the chance to be who they are? Let&#8217;s not make anyone feel bad they&#8217;re something else.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Haikus for a Greener World by Sophia Wilson</title>
		<link>http://rachele.rosi-kessel.org/weblog/2007/04/27/haikus-for-a-greener-world/comment-page-1/#comment-13245</link>
		<dc:creator>Sophia Wilson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 May 2010 11:09:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am also a vegetarian and my body has never been in a very good shape. Being a vegan can really make you much heathier.,&quot;,</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am also a vegetarian and my body has never been in a very good shape. Being a vegan can really make you much heathier.,&#8221;,</p>
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		<title>Comment on Deer in Roslindale by Beth</title>
		<link>http://rachele.rosi-kessel.org/weblog/2007/05/22/deer-in-roslindale/comment-page-1/#comment-13114</link>
		<dc:creator>Beth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Apr 2010 05:53:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I saw a deer over by Holy Name Church in the yard and it crossed the street at around 3am one early morning last year. Beautiful animal! I have also seen coyotes about a mile away down by the Jewish Rehab near the Arboretum. It&#039;s amazing these animals are in the city!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I saw a deer over by Holy Name Church in the yard and it crossed the street at around 3am one early morning last year. Beautiful animal! I have also seen coyotes about a mile away down by the Jewish Rehab near the Arboretum. It&#8217;s amazing these animals are in the city!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Roslindale Issues by Gabriella Schech</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gabriella Schech</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Mar 2010 08:16:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>interesting take on the subject, count me as a new subscriber!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>interesting take on the subject, count me as a new subscriber!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Forced Procreation by Charles Jones</title>
		<link>http://rachele.rosi-kessel.org/weblog/2006/03/28/forced-procreation/comment-page-1/#comment-12361</link>
		<dc:creator>Charles Jones</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Feb 2009 18:15:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think that the fact that women have had children forced upon them due to the impossibility of abortion because of their circumstances is as you say very unfair and should be stopped however i think that to justify the use of male&#039;s sperm because of this prior mistreatment is not even vaguely fair. I agree that men act in inappropriate ways towards women in regards to pregnancy and parenting but still, you should not sink to their level of hypocrisy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think that the fact that women have had children forced upon them due to the impossibility of abortion because of their circumstances is as you say very unfair and should be stopped however i think that to justify the use of male&#8217;s sperm because of this prior mistreatment is not even vaguely fair. I agree that men act in inappropriate ways towards women in regards to pregnancy and parenting but still, you should not sink to their level of hypocrisy.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Forced Procreation by Mens Divorce Tactics</title>
		<link>http://rachele.rosi-kessel.org/weblog/2006/03/28/forced-procreation/comment-page-1/#comment-12179</link>
		<dc:creator>Mens Divorce Tactics</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Oct 2008 16:44:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Divorce is something that no one wants to face.  Sometimes there are hard feelings between the two couples and sometimes the couple will still get along very well.  One thing is for sure; once you are divorced, you do not need to be having an intimate with your ex.  You will want to remain friendly with your ex.  When you are trying to rebuild your life, you want to do the right things.  A divorce is something that can be very complicated and when you are combining sex with your ex, you are only making the situation more complicated. There are so many things to worry about when you are trying to rebuild your life after a divorce.  You have to be willing to let the physical side of your relationship go so that you can free your mind and body up for the next chapter in your life.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Divorce is something that no one wants to face.  Sometimes there are hard feelings between the two couples and sometimes the couple will still get along very well.  One thing is for sure; once you are divorced, you do not need to be having an intimate with your ex.  You will want to remain friendly with your ex.  When you are trying to rebuild your life, you want to do the right things.  A divorce is something that can be very complicated and when you are combining sex with your ex, you are only making the situation more complicated. There are so many things to worry about when you are trying to rebuild your life after a divorce.  You have to be willing to let the physical side of your relationship go so that you can free your mind and body up for the next chapter in your life.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Parking on Taft Hill by connie</title>
		<link>http://rachele.rosi-kessel.org/weblog/2007/05/24/parking-on-taft-hill/comment-page-1/#comment-10283</link>
		<dc:creator>connie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jun 2007 12:03:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>it will be funny when you need help and everyones looking for parking spaces. who will take care of you then</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>it will be funny when you need help and everyones looking for parking spaces. who will take care of you then</p>
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		<title>Comment on Deer in Roslindale by allison</title>
		<link>http://rachele.rosi-kessel.org/weblog/2007/05/22/deer-in-roslindale/comment-page-1/#comment-8905</link>
		<dc:creator>allison</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jun 2007 23:07:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, yay! I&#039;ve seen *signs* of them in the Arboretum. Lucky you, getting to see them in person.

Thank you for sharing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, yay! I&#8217;ve seen *signs* of them in the Arboretum. Lucky you, getting to see them in person.</p>
<p>Thank you for sharing.</p>
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